姤 (Gòu)
Read it as a text, not a verdict
Traditional judgment
The maiden is powerful. One should not marry such a maiden.
Read it as a text, not a verdict
Start with the wording on this page, then note which image or phrase catches your attention. Compare it with facts, obligations, and the perspectives of people affected by your decision before deciding what it means.
The same hexagram can be read differently across traditions, translations, and personal contexts. It cannot predict health, money, relationships, safety, or another person’s choices.
A grounded reflection
Use the image, name, and judgment of Coming to Meet as a reflection prompt. Ask what is observable in your situation, what assumption the text challenges, and what modest action or conversation you can test.
Keep the hexagram separate from the real evidence and support needed for maintenance, safety, medical, legal, or financial decisions.